One of the most intimate and yet most avoided subjects in French society today is the use of sex toys. While in other countries this subject is increasingly discussed openly, in France it generally remains a source of embarrassment. Why does this reluctance persist in a country where the sexual revolution has also left its mark?
The culture of secrecy
A historical heritage
The French’s reserved attitude towards sexuality can be attributed to ancient cultural elements. Catholicism, predominant until contemporary times, established a tradition of modesty and discretion in matters of sexuality. This climate has created a culture where intimate topics are considered private and, therefore, not discussed in public.
A myth of romanticism
The cliché of the romantic French maintains mystery and discretion around sexuality, leaving room for imagination rather than frank discussion. This idealized vision of love is opposed to the idea of mechanical sexuality, rightly or wrongly associated with sex toys.
Lack of open dialogue
Failing sex education
Sex education in France, which has long been poorly regulated, has not included the discussion of intimate toys. This omission in parent-child exchanges and in school programs reinforces the taboo nature of sex toys, which are still perceived as marginal or shameful.
Political laziness
Despite recent advances, politics has not always encouraged the discussion of sexual topics, preferring to leave this sphere to individual freedom. However, this neutrality may have contributed to the lack of normalization of sex toys and their stigmatization.
Stereotypes to deconstruct
From individual pleasure to sexual liberation
Sex toys are often associated with solitary satisfaction, which can be frowned upon in a society that often values sharing. It is crucial to change this perception to recognize that the use of sex toys can be a means of sexual liberation, joy and well-being for individuals.
A notion still rooted in sexism
The association of sex toys with women’s satisfaction can be a reductive, even sexist, vision. It is essential to promote an inclusive perception, recognizing that these tools are intended for anyone seeking pleasure.
The evolution of mentalities
New channels for disseminating information
With the advent of the Internet and social networks, more and more voices are being heard to normalize the use of sex toys. Private initiatives and forums allow everyone to share their experience, at the same time democratizing the subject.
Towards a more open and uninhibited vision
We are gradually witnessing a change in mentalities, with a growing acceptance of diverse sexuality. This trend towards openness encourages us to consider the subject of sex toys more as a personal choice, an additional way to explore and know our own body.
SexySexToy’s opinion
In conclusion, the question of the place of sex toys in French society is complex and multifaceted. Between historical legacies, education, politics and stereotypes to combat, the road to full recognition of these tools in the panoply of pleasure is still long. But the signs of evolution are there, and open discussion is the first step towards an enlightened and uninhibited approach to sexuality, including the positive role of sex toys.
Last updated on 19 July 2024
